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Simply humbled….

As the parent of a severely disabled child life throws many challenges at me. I’m determined to make a difference and make the most out of my families circumstances, yet despite how much I fight I am always finding people who simply leave me in awe!

Two Stories to Inspire

Many of you will have heard of TEAM HOYT a simply inspiring father and son who never let a bad prognosis from the medical profession or life’s challenges stop them from achieving. These guys just blow me away and make me more determined.  If you haven’t heard about them here is a video about them ….

Another person living with a child with a severe disability who touched me today was Claire who blogs at Life with a severely disabled child….. the part of her post Pride, No Prejudice that hit me was….

I am intensely proud of both of my children. And you know what else? It has nothing to do with their academic abilities. It has nothing to do with abilities at all.

And how, pray tell, did that attitude come about, all things considered?

In all honesty, I don’t rightly know. Perhaps it is via an act of grace (or my esoteric views) that I see their brilliance as something that goes beyond what they can do and into what they are. And what are they but human beings living life as best they can, struggling mightily with some things, sailing through others? Definitely, though, they are (as are your children, normal or not) marked for deeper things because of their involvement with disability. Their influence need not be global, or even earthly, to be significant. Their lives are transformative, to themselves and/or to others.”

What about you?

I wonder can you see past the imperfections of those around you and see the value in them no matter how flawed they may appear on the outside?  Who in your life sets an example like Dick, Rick or Claire…  why do they inspire you?

Life’s ONLY rule

You have to care – it’s the only rule in life!

The way I see it life has only one rule……and that is you have to CARE!

How do you express it?

It doesn’t matter how you express it, whether you call it giving a shit, whether you call it stepping up to the plate, rising to the challenge, giving a toss… however you put it there is only one rule that underpins every other rule in life…that is to CARE!

Why caring matters

All the good things in life only happen because somebody cares. (and conversely, a lot of bad stuff happens when people don’t care!……remember the quote by Edmund Burke….”all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men (and women) do nothing”  and how many times in history this fact quote has proven correct )

The good things happen because someone cares enough about whatever specific thing it is to do whatever it takes to make something happen. Whether it’s the next big leap in astrophysics… or whether it is picking up the phone and calling to see if you are ok, or leaving a message of support for you on facebook they only happen because someone CARES…..

What about you?

What do you care about and why…… and how do you show it?

image credit: Aunt Owwee @flickr
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