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Debating the nanny state…….

The information below is an unashamed cross posting of another of my articles from the blog I run for the Samuel Morris Foundation…….. It’s just that I feel SO DAMN passionate about this issue, that I could not let it go…..

All hail Miranda Devine and her rallying forces against the nanny state…….. after all who needs a nanny state…. not me….and I’m sure not you!

So how dare a government attempt to protect a vulnerable section of our community like 0-5 year olds, especially by reviewing laws which Miranda acknowledges as good…”many lives have been saved and injuries prevented by good laws – the original Swimming Pool Act requiring pools be fenced was one and compulsory seatbelts and random breath tests were two more.”

In her article “Nanny State helps drown us in our own stupidity” (Sydney Morning Herald 21 October 2009) Miranda claims that the proposed changes to the Swimming Pools Act are as a result of a spate of child drownings last year. Sorry Miranda, even a rudimentary amount of research would have revealed that that the review process was underway prior to last “summers spate of drownings”. In fact the review of the Swimming Pools regulation was completed prior to last summers spate of drownings, and the legislative review was already flagged at that point.

Research would also have revealed that there was a reduction in the overall number of toddler drowning across Australia last year, but this was not the case in NSW, where there was an increase, it would also have revealed that the numbers have been trending upwards across Australia over the past few years.

The original Pool Fencing Laws, which it is acknowledged have saved lives, were full of loopholes about which pools did or did not need to be fenced, and contained miserable enforcement provisions.

Why is a pool constructed before 1990 any less of a hazard than a pool constructed after 1990, why is a pool on a small block of land any less of a hazard than a pool on an sized block of land?” The simple answer is that there is NO difference in the hazard regardless of where the domestic swimming pool is located

read the rest of the post here…..http://bit.ly/nanny_state

What are you waiting for – isn’t it time to be patient instead?

If you ask my nine or fourteen year old daughters (or for that matter my wife)  if I’m a patient man, they will probably tell you that depends (and definitely not)!

You see I’m the first to admit I hate to wait, especially behind the wheel of my car, and I’m a nut for punctuality and can’t stand to be late getting somewhere……… but then again I think I am a patient man in life.

So what do you think I mean by patience? ……. I’m not talking waiting pure and simple….well at least not in the sense that most people probably think of waiting! I’m talking true patience…….

 ” Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting, that is laziness, but to keep going when the going is hard and slow – that is patience”(quote of unknown origin)

So I’m definitely not talking about lazy patience, other wise known as waiting……….you see real patience is work, it means knowing that the outcome that you want is going to take time, it means knowing that to achieve the outcome you want there are things you will have to endure along the way, and it means knowing that despite how much you want it, you simply cannot make it happen any faster.

My greatest teacher in relation to patience is my six year old son, Samuel. Samuel is severely disabled and faces multiple and complex challenges. We can’t make his situation any different, no matter how badly we want to, we can’t fix all of his discomforts, now matter how badly we want to. We CAN and we are DOING things make him more comfortable, but they are things that take a great deal of time and they are things that can cause a great burden along the way, both for him and for us; we CAN and we DO do things to give him the best possible quality of life, we CAN and we DO love him for who he is, but we just have to travel his journey with him until the end!

Edward G Bulwer-Lytton, author, playwright and politician said….”patience is not passive, on the contrary it is active, it is concentrated strength”

……… so………

My Challenge!

I know I can be patient…… and I know I’m not good at waiting….. so my challenge is turn some of the waiting that frustrates me into acts of patience…… so I’m going to start by adressing my frustration behind the wheel by turning it into an act of patience. I know I CAN change my attitude to the situation by thinking about it as a PATIENCE challenge. Sure, I may be late getting somewhere, but that is a consequence I CAN and WILL have to accept, after all no matter what I DO I can’t make the traffic go any faster, but I CAN be patient!

Your Challenge!

What are you going to stop waiting for…… and what are you willing to be patient for and what are you going to turn into a concentrated strength? What CAN you DO……what will you DO!

 Post a comment and let me know!

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