Have you had that feeling…… when speaking to some one feels like they are sucking you dry, like you can feel your energy being pulled out of you like water down a drain?
My experience is that some people are simply energy drains….. they only know how to communicate in the negative, they only know how to ask you to solve their problems, without ever seeking to solve the problem themselves.
These people are very externally oriented and their state of being is dictated by what is happening around them.
At some point a decision needs to be made about cutting them loose
How do you deal with people who are energy drains?