Exploring Resilience via Lifes Burning Issues

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How to shape your own life.

 

 

 

 

 

full or empty vessel?

“We shape clay into a pot, but it is the emptiness inside that holds whatever we want.” Lao Tzu

We all know the glass half full or half empty question about how we perceive life, but have you ever considered it from the perspective of the Lao Tzu quote?

How much time do we spend on our appearances, either physically or metaphorically, concentrating only on the apparent shape and appearance of what we are presenting to the world without thinking about the space that we are creating internally.

Lao Tzu has an excellent point to make. You can make the most exquisitely beautiful pot, but it does not mean that is any more capable of carrying life’s ups and downs than the plain-looking pot.

Have you heard the expression “that person is full of themselves”? The person whose pot is full of themselves has no room for others. The person who works to make sure that their pot has plenty of empty room is able to carry others with them.

What are you molding with the clay of your life? and what are you filling your pot with… yourself… or some emptiness to help carry other things?

 

 

 

 

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What if……

What if...

IF…… many people spend a lot of time saying “if only” but we are going to spend some time saying “What if……. ”

There are so many things in life we could apply the question “what if” to.

In his famous poem “if” Kipling provides a range of “if” scenarios that provide a recipe for developing into a mature person. Granted Kipling’s last line might only apply to half the population, but I think we can forgive that line and just accept that it applies to self-development for all of us.

What if ….. leaves a million possibilities doesn’t it? and that is just the point.

What if…. we came at a familiar situation with a different a mindset?

What if…. we accepted that we are where we are because of choices we have made in the past?

What if…. we accept, to use a comment that has been used here often….life is what it is?

What if…. we accepted that in every choice we make today we are deciding a little bit of what our future will look like?

What if…. you asked yourself “what if” and spent a moment thinking about that when faced with a choice…. would you make better choices?

Life is what it is, but what life becomes is decided by your answers to “WHAT IF…”

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